The bedroom is where the magic happens. But it is hard for the magic to happen when you are not feeling sexy. After all, how you feel can rub off on your partner which can ultimately make the difference between mind-blowing sex and both of your sleeping on opposite sides of the bed.
The great thing is that feeling sexy doesn’t always have to mean hitting the gym for that perfect body. It can be as simple as taking yoga lessons, which comes with some awesome health benefits, including helping you relax as well as dressing the part.
Let’s take a look at a few tips to help you feel sexier in the bedroom.
- Your Outfit
Your outfit has a lot to do with setting the mood. Try wearing something that you are not only comfortable with but also something that brings out your best parts. This could be your hips, your butt, or your breasts.
For instance, a short skirt to flaunt your sexy legs and thick thighs or a curve-hugging dress. Looking good will rub on to your man and will definitely catch his interest.
Note that what works for one woman may not work for another so it’s important that you choose your outfit wisely.
- The Lighting
Nothing sets the mood to get touchy-touchy quite like the lighting. Bright light is a definite mood killer. However, dim light or candlelight can definitely make you feel more confident as it provides you with a feeling of discreteness yet shows you off to your partner.
By leaving some things to the imagination, you can get your partner ready to pounce in no time. Consider choosing different lighting fixtures in your bedroom such as a blueish pretty light and get rid of that bright florescent light.
- Wear Some Flirty Lingerie
Try wearing fancy lingerie. This is guaranteed to change your mood instantly. Keep in mind, however, that what works for one woman may not work for another. The goal is to put on something that you are not only comfortable in but brings out the best on you.
For instance, you can opt for a thong. However, if this is not your style, perhaps you could get your man in the mood with some tight shorts or a leopard print.
- Take it Easy
Nothing kills that sexual vibe quite like a tired body and mind. We all know those days when our beloved is a bit frisky but we are too tired to engage. It is important to ensure that you are not exhausted when you want to get down.
Take the day off and relax, sip some wine, and take a daytime nap. When it’s finally time to surprise your man, you will be both ready and willing to partake.
- Step Out of Your Comfort Zone
One way to get the blood flowing to get a little dangerous. This means doing something that is out of the ordinary for you. For instance, role play and catch your partner both in surprise and awe.
All this will get the adrenaline pumping. And who knows maybe you will keep exploring new things with your partner in the bedroom.
- Include Your Partner in Your Fantasies
Remember that this is about both of you having a great time. Ask your partner about his fantasies as well. You will be surprised at how much this will get you excited and in the mood.
It also offers a great opportunity to find out what goes on in your partner’s naughty mind. However, it is also possible to have contrasting fantasies. In that case, talking about it to your partner does the wonders. While you are acting out your fantasies, let him take over and act out his fantasies as well.
- Try Out Your Fantasies
All those dirty thoughts you’ve been having that you have been so afraid to let loose now is the time to let them out to pay.
Your man will definitely notice the difference and chances are he will let you take the lead and show him what you can do.
Feeling sexy in the bedroom can be as simple as wearing a teasing outfit and a sexy lingerie. You can also exchange fantasies with your man. It might surprise you to find out about all the naughty secrets he’s been keeping to himself. Don’t hold the passion back and take the plunge. Step out of your comfort zone and put the right lighting and enjoy the ride.