Sexuality is more than genitals, intercourse and orgasm – much, much more. It’s an energy and part of the life force; therefore, not a physical activity but connected to spirituality, creativity, joy and love. All these qualities are contained within each of us and we need only access them. If anyone tells me they don’t […]
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Planning to spend Valentine’s Day tucked up in bed? Get saucy sex tips and fabulous foreplay ideas in our essential guide Help, my boyfriend thinks our sex life is vanilla!>> How do I lose the pressure to meet his needs? Read more Libido lifters>> Not in the mood for sex? These libido lifters could help boost […]
No interest in sex? Low libido is more common than you might think. Question is, when is it a problem? Memo: not everyone else is begging their partner to fake a morning meeting to squeeze in a quickie (or soliciting hookups on Tinder every second night). Far from it. In a landmark study, researchers from […]
We asked Samantha Jayne, of Blue Label Life, for a foolproof plan 1. Change the rules (were the old ones that good?) Commit to a schedule of actions based on your new rules, and report to a trusted friend each time you triumph over old patterns – even if it’s minor. 2. Stop being a […]
Sex therapist Amanda Robb answers your questions Recently, my girlfriends and I were out for dinner and the conversation turned to how often we are all ‘doing it’ with our partners. I was shocked at how frequently my friends are having sex compared to my husband and I, who have sex a couple of times […]
When the initial passion/lust fades in a relationship, it’s not time to panic. The ship isn’t sinking and your heart will go on, says psychologist Meredith Fuller. “Research indicates that the initial passion, which encompasses high levels of sexual tension, lasts anywhere from six months to two years and then transmutes into other feelings,” says […]
There’s more to clinching the deal than closing skills and eye contact. We borrowed the best ways to win work friends and influence people from author of How to Connect in Business in 90 Seconds or Less Nicholas Boothman. Maintain eye contain This lets the other person know you’re interested and encourages them to talk. […]
Sex therapist Amanda Robb offers her top tips and advice. Blame the movies for making us believe that you can slip on a rubber without skipping a beat. Outside lala land, this little piece of latex can be a big deal (and not just because it can save you from STDs and kindergarten fees). In […]
Want to improve your sex life? Social media, forums, panels and the websites and blogs of experts are a collective hotbed of helpful hints. Try it: thepleasurecoach.org A man throwing his clout behind using the interweb to source sex info is LA-based intimacy and relationship coach Hercules Liotard. The founder of websites The Pleasure Coach […]
Not in the mood for sex? You’re not alone – women are having less boom in the bedroom than movies and magazines would have us believe. But you can learn to love loving, writes Charmaine Yabsley Sex isn’t the be all and end all of coupling. “It’s more important to be open to sexual gestures […]